25 Sexy Date Ideas At Home

written by Trevor & Angie
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If you’re looking for something new and exciting to do on date night, why not try one of these sexy date ideas at home? From taking naughty photos to playing fun games, there are plenty of ways to spice up your next date night. 

If you’re looking for some sexy fun on date night, you don’t necessarily have to go out on the town.

There are plenty of ways to turn up the heat right at home.

Here are 25 sexy date night ideas that will keep things hot long after the sun goes down.

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25 Sexy Date Ideas At Home

boudoir photo session

1. Boudoir Photo Session

A boudoir photo session is a great way to spice up your relationship and make things a little more exciting. First, create a setting that is both comfortable and inviting by dimming the lights, playing music, and lighting a few candles.

Then, get dressed up. Part of the fun of a boudoir photo session is getting all dressed up in sexy lingerie or an outfit that makes you feel confident.

Once you’re ready, take turns posing and taking sexy photos of one another. It may feel awkward initially, but don’t let that stop you from having fun. Who knows where it might lead? 

sensual massages

2. Sensual Massages

This isn’t your typical massage. You’re going to crank things up a notch with scented candles, sexy music, and dim lighting. Once the mood is set, all you need is a bed and some good-quality massage oil.

This lavender-scented oil is our favorite. If you want to take your massages to the next level, consider investing in a portable massage table.

The cost of the table is equivalent to one couples massage at a fancy spa, but with your own massage table, you can get regular massages for free with the potential for a happy ending! Wink, wink! It may be the best investment you make all year. 

candlelit dinner

3. Candlelit Dinner

If you’re looking for a romantic evening, look no further than your own kitchen! A candlelit dinner at home can be just as special as a night out on the town. Plus, it’s a great way to save money and enjoy some quality time together.

To make sure your dinner is extra-romantic, start by setting the mood with some candles and soft music. Then, prepare a delicious meal using your partner’s favorite ingredients. Don’t forget to pour a glass of wine or champagne to complete the perfect date night!

dress up and role play

4. Dress Up and Role-play

Dressing up and role playing can be a fun and sexy date night at home. It can be a great way to spice things up in the bedroom and get out of your comfort zone.

You can either dress up as your favorite characters from movies, TV shows, or books, or you can make up your own costumes and characters. Either way, you’ll create a  memorable night! 

take a bath

5. Take a bath 

There’s nothing quite like a romantic bath together to bond with your partner and get you both in the mood.

For the ultimate experience, light some candles and add some soothing aromatherapy or add a few drops of lavender oil to the bath.

Have a glass of wine and some strawberries ready to enjoy while you relax in the tub, and you’ve got the perfect setting for a romantic evening with your partner.

striptease lap dances

6. Striptease / Lap Dances

One of the sexiest things you can do for your partner is give them a private striptease or lapdance. It’s a great way to get each other aroused and in the mood for some fun.

Plus, it’s something you can do right in your own home without having to go out. This is sure to get their heart racing and provide plenty of fun and pleasure for both of you.

watch a sexy movie together

7. Watch a sexy movie together

There’s nothing quite like watching a steamy movie together to get you both in the mood. Whether you’re watching 50 Shades of Grey or 9 1/2 Weeks, getting cozy on the couch with your partner and some popcorn is a great way to spend an evening.

Crank things up a notch and wear some sexy lingerie under your clothes and watch the movie in your bed. If you’re feeling really frisky, act out some of the scenes in the movie.

indulge in fantasies

8. Indulge in Fantasies

Make a list of all the things you’ve ever wanted to do in bed, and then pick one to do together.

For many couples, date night is a sacred opportunity to connect with one another and enjoy some quality time together. However, sometimes it can be difficult to come up with new and exciting ideas that will keep things fresh.

If you’re looking for something fun and sexy to do on your next date night at home, why not consider indulging in one of your fantasies. 

kinky dessert

9. Kinky Dessert

Turn the heat up in your kitchen by making a dessert together. You can have a lot of fun in the kitchen with this date.

Especially if you crank things up a notch and wear nothing but aprons while you cook. It doesn’t matter what you make, as long as it’s something you both enjoy.

Bonus points if it involves using your hands (and mouths) to feed each other.

body painting

10. Body Painting

Start by picking out some non-toxic, water-based body paint in your favorite colors. Place a large plastic tarp on the floor and have your partner lie down on it. Take turns painting each other’s bodies.

Be as creative as you want – go for geometric shapes, swirls, or whatever inspires you. Use the body paint to create a work of art on your partner’s body.

Take a photo of your work of art to remember the experience. When you’re done, jump in the shower and clean the paint from each other’s bodies.

read the karma sutra

11. Read the Karma Sutra

Sexual activity doesn’t have to be complicated or expensive to be enjoyable. Sometimes the simplest things can be the most erotic and satisfying.

Case in point: reading the Karma Sutra together. Pour a glass of wine and grab a copy of this ancient Hindu text.

Take turns reading portions of the book to one another and select a few sexual positions you’d like to try during your date. 

play sexy truth or dare

12. Play Sexy Truth or Dare

What’s more fun than a little friendly competition? Amp up the sexy factor by playing truth or dare with your partner.

Take turns asking each other naughty questions and completing daring tasks. If you’re feeling extra frisky, add a few stakes to the game.

For example, whoever loses the round has to remove an article of clothing or perform a sexual act on their partner.

make massage oil

13. Make Massage Oil

Making massage oil is a fun, sexy activity you can enjoy together at home. All you need is coconut oil, essential oils, and a few drops of food coloring.

Mix everything and, voila! You have your very own custom-made massage oil. Use it to give each other sensual massages or stimulating foot rubs.

play loopy

14. Play Loopy

If you’re looking for a fun and sexy date night activity, look no further than Loopy. This game is perfect for couples who want to spice things up and have some laughs while they’re at it.

To play, simply take turns drawing cards from the deck and performing the actions listed on them.

Some cards will require you to perform intimate physical tasks, while others will be more light-hearted and playful. 

Either way, you’re sure to have a night that’s full of fun, laughter, and maybe even a little bit of naughty fun. So go ahead and give Loopy a try – it just might be the best date night you’ve ever had. 

blindfolded food tasting

15. Blindfolded Food Tasting

Food can be a sensual experience, and there’s nothing like exploring new flavors with your partner. Blindfolded food tasting is a great way to add a little spice to your date night.

Not only will you get to try new things, but you’ll also get to rely on each other for guidance and support. Plus, it’s a great way to get out of your comfort zone and try something new together.

To get started, simply blindfold your partner and feed them a few bites of different foods. Be sure to mix up the flavors, textures, and temperatures so they’re constantly guessing.

You can even add a little bit of spice to turn up the heat. As you feed them, take the time to describe the flavors and textures so they can enjoy the experience fully.

read an erotic story together

16. Read an Erotic Story Together

For something different, try reading a sexy story together. Get lost in each other’s eyes while you enjoy some hot and steamy literature.

Take turns reading to each other and if you want to really heat things up, act out the sex scenes from the story.

learn about tantra

17. Learn About Tantra

Tantra is an ancient practice that can bring couples closer together. It involves using breath, movement, and intention to create a deeper connection with your partner.

While it may sound daunting at first, tantra is relatively easy to learn and can be a fun way to spend an evening together.

One of the best things about tantra is that it can be done in the comfort of your own home.

There’s no need to go to a special class or workshop – you can simply clear some space in your living room and get started with the guidance of a book or online course. 

play strip poker

18. Play Strip Poker

Playing this classic game is sure to entertain and excite you! You’ll need a deck of cards and some poker chips (or anything else you can use to keep score).

Set up the game like you would any other round of poker. The only difference is that every time a player loses a hand, they must remove an article of clothing.

Keep playing until one of you is completely naked.

make out in your car

19. Make Out In Your Car

Do you remember how exciting it was to make out in a car when you were a teenage?

Recreate that same excitement you felt by jumping in your car and enjoying an old-fashioned make out session.

It can be a little challenging at first, but once you get the hang of it, it’s a great way to spice up your date night.

Just remember to have fun! It’s supposed to be enjoyable, so don’t take it too seriously. Let yourself get lost in the moment and enjoy your time together.

play naughty mad libs

20. Play Naughty Mad Libs

This game will surely get you both laughing and perhaps even a bit aroused.

To play, simply take turns filling in the blanks of a naughty mad lib with dirty words or phrases.

The resulting story will be silly and likely to turn you both on.

write and act out a sexy story

21. Write and Act Out a Sexy Story

If you’re looking for a fun and sexy date night idea, why not try writing and acting out a sexy story together?

This is a great way to get each other aroused and to have some fun role-playing. You can take turns writing the story, or one of you can write the whole thing, and the other can act it out.

Either way, it’s a great way to get your imaginations flowing and get you outside of your comfort zone and create an unforgettable experience.

create a spa

22. Create a Spa

If you and your partner are looking for a fun and sexy way to spend some time together, why not turn your home into a spa?

This can be a great way to relax and unwind, while also spending some quality time together. To amp up the romance, set the mood by dimming the lights and playing some relaxing music.

Start by giving each other a massage, using scented oils or lotions. This is a great way to get each other’s blood flowing and get things started.

After the massages, you can move on to the fun part: the masks! You can both use facial masks, foot masks, or hand masks, depending on what you’re in the mood for. This is a great way to pamper each other and get things nice and steamy.

body shots

23. Body Shots

Body shots are the perfect way to add a little excitement to your date night. Not only are they super fun, but they’re also a great way to get close to your partner.

You can either pour a shot of liquor on your partner and drink it off their body, or you can drink it out of a shot glass and then lick salt or fruit off of your partners body.

Either way, it’s a fun way to heat things up!

try a new sex toy

24. Try a New Sex Toy

Trying new things in the bedroom is a great way to add some spice and excitement to your sex life.

A few days before your date, do a little online shopping and decide on a new sex toy you’d both like to try.

Make sure it will be delivered in time! On the evening of your date, set the mood with candles, romantic music, and soft lighting.

Make sure to take your time and keep an open mind. 

online dance classes

25. Salsa Dance

Dance is a great way to get your body moving and can be a fun way to connect with your partner.

There are plenty of online dance classes you can take together, from salsa to ballroom dancing. For a more romantic experience, select a sensual dance like salsa or tango.

You can even find classes specifically designed for couples. Make it extra fun and flirty with a sexy flowing skirt like this one.


We hope you enjoyed these sexy date ideas at home! With a little creativity, you can turn any ordinary night into a night to remember.

So get out there and start planning your next at-home date night! Who knows, it might just be the best one yet.

Cheers to date night! ❤️️

For more date ideas, read 30 Creative At-Home Date Ideas.


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When the COVID-19 pandemic sent us into lockdown in 2020, our family turned Saturday evenings into date night. We channeled all of our nervous energy into creating unique date night experiences in the comfort and safety of our home. Our weekly date nights quickly became our favorite night of the week and something our family continued long after we came out of lockdown. After hundreds of at-home date nights, we can honestly say that our marriage is stronger than ever. The healing power of date night is so strong that we had to create T&A Date Nights to share it with others.

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